Frequently Asked Questions

  • Do babies speak a real language?

    Babies use sounds and visual signals to express their basic needs. These sounds are not random. They are caused by their body responding to a physical need. If these needs are not met or are misinterpreted, the cries become louder and they become upset.


    These reflex sounds form the basis of what we have called Dunstan Baby Language.

  • Is Dunstan Baby Language difficult to learn?

    Not at all. It is just like learning a foreign language. From the moment you really start listening and become familiar with the sounds your baby makes, you will start to understand them. Dunstan Baby Language helps you know what to listen for in your baby's sounds and what to look for in your baby's visual signals, so that you know what your baby needs and how best to respond.

  • Does this method help me understand my baby better?

    When your baby is happy and content, you will notice that he or she sleeps better. It is much easier to help a tired baby fall asleep than a child who is actually still awake or, conversely, overtired. When you recognize the sound for 'tired' and respond to it, you will notice that it becomes easier to help your baby fall asleep. This also makes it easier to create a sleep-wake rhythm that is well-aligned with your baby's needs.

  • Does my baby make all the little noises every day?

    Your baby makes these sounds because a certain need arises that triggers a specific reflex. Therefore, you will only hear sounds that match the need the baby has at that moment and which is not (yet) being met. For example, if your baby is bothered by burping a lot, that will be a sound you will hear frequently.

  • Does Dunstan Baby Language work for babies older than three months?

    Research has shown that the BabyTalk method is very successful with young babies. This is because the method is based on reflexes that all occur in the first months of a baby's life. After that, a number of the reflexes gradually fade away. For the sucking reflex, this happens around three or four months; for the other reflexes, we do not know exactly. We are familiar with the yawning reflex as adults as well, so that remains audible into adulthood. It is helpful to learn to recognize the sounds during early infancy, as babies do not yet make other conscious sounds at that stage, so you will often hear the reflex sounds. A trained ear can also pick out the BabyTalk sounds in slightly older babies. And some babies will continue to use the sounds as conscious communication when they discover, for example, that they are being fed at "Neh."

  • Should I use the techniques shown in the online course to soothe my baby?

    The techniques shown in the online course to soothe your baby are some of the most popular techniques. They are included in the online learning environment to give you some ideas of what you could do now that you know what your baby needs. Always do what you think is best for your baby. If you need more help, contact an expert.

  • I don't speak Dutch, does Dunstan Baby Language work for me too?

    Dunstan Baby Language is a universal explanation of babies' reflex sounds. It is innate rather than learned. So, just as a laugh, a sneeze, or a hiccup is a sound that all people around the world make, the reflex sounds your baby makes are also universal. Therefore, they are not dependent on culture, language, or origin.

  • Can fathers learn it too?

    Absolutely, fathers and other co-parents can learn Dunstan Baby Language too. In fact, the Baby Language method provides them with valuable knowledge that allows them to be involved in the care of their newborn baby with more confidence. Parents who have learned Dunstan Baby Language together report having more appreciation for each other's contributions and that there is less stress in the home. Grandparents, siblings, and other caregivers can, of course, learn Dunstan Baby Language as well.

  • Does the method also work for premature children?

    Our research does not yet have official data on the effects of preterm birth on recognizing Baby Talk sounds. However, we regularly receive positive feedback from parents of premature children who indicate that they recognize the sounds from their baby and that this enables them to respond well to their child's needs.